cygwin-xfree newbie woes: of mice and xterm

[Gene C. Ruzicka]

i just installed xfree, and i'm running into some weird problems. first,
using the left and center mouse buttons to cut and the center to paste
doesn't work when i invoke the xterm that's on my PC .  but when i
log onto my office UNIX workstation from home and run xterm
there with DISPLAY set to my PC, the cut/paste sequence works
fine.  

also, when i invoke xterm on my PC, the -title and -n options don
t work  i can't specify the window title even when i make the
request using the windowTitle resource, instead of putting the
request in the command line.

finally, is there a version of Motif somewhere that works with
Cygwin-Xfree?

thanx in advance for any and all help.

geme